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Alam mo kung bakit? Kasi mahirap ibaba ang pride eh, especially sa mga lalaki, kaya kung naibaba niya yun.. ibig sabihin mahal ka niya. mahal na mahal.

because in a relationship, it’s very important THAT both peeople involved in the relationship gives effort.. to show that you care. it’s hard when one keeps taking, and not giving anything in return. effort should be reciprocal.

5) Romance is a slow dance.
Lastly, which I think is a very good point is.. love takes time. You shouldn’t rush it, because it wouldn’t have good results. It takes time, and you should be patient. Wag niyo iprepressure ang girlfriend niyo to do things she doesn’t want to do (such as kissing. If she’s not ready yet, respect her decision. It’ll come naman eh) Romance is a process. Hindi dapat ito minamadali. Be patient. If it’s meant to be, it will be.

4) Be consistent
I guess this means, be consistent with what you do. Maging sweet kayo, ireassure niyo siya na mahal niyo siya. Magbigay kayo ng effort, wag yung puro take lang.. dahil a relationship involves TWO people to make it work. Not one.

3) The best pag honest!
What’s a relationship without trust and honesty diba? Importante to sa isang relationship. Dapat wag kayo magsinugaling, sabihin niyo sa isa’t isa lahat ng nararamdaman niyo. Communicate. Imporante yun. Naku, magaling ang mga babae malaman kung nagsisinugaling kayo.. kaya it’s better to tell her the truth na lang dahil pag nalaman niya na nagsinugaling ka.. mas malaking away pa to. Kaya dapat, be honest. Don’t lie to her, she has to be able to trust you. Don’t break that trust by lying to her. Gets? :)

2) Makiramdam kay Madam.
In this scene of the movie, Sarah was carrying several bags and Gerald just let her carry her stuff by herself. ENKK. That’s not what youre suppose to do! Be a gentleman. Pakiramdaman mo siya. Mukha ba siyang malungkot? Pasayahin mo! Baka naman nagseselos, lambingin mo! I won’t lie, we girls, we’re usually moody, bipolar.. kaya our moods change quickly.. kaya kailangan.. pakiramdaman niyo kami. Intindihin niyo kami pag nagsusungit kami. At remember, being a GENTLEMAN will earn you SEVERAL pogi points ;)

1) Pay attention, para walang tenson
I was watching Won’t Last A Day Without You today, so I decided to share what steps Sarah (George/Heidee) decided to give Gerald (Andrew) sa movie :)
In this part of the movie, Gerald was flirting with a different girl. Naku boys! Pag may girlfriend ka na o may gusto ka ng iba.. wag ganoon. Wag ka na tumingin sa iba.. meron ka naman diba? Selosa kaming mga babae. Kaya iwasan niyo yan.
And pay attention! Pay attention to what your girlfriend/girl/significant other tells you. Listen to her. There’s nothing more annoying than talking to someone tapos di naman pala sila makikinig. Promise boys, pag naalala mo little details about her, it’ll make her smile. It’ll make her realize that you care about everything she says. Minsan kasi, pag di ka nakikinig, may nasabi pala siyang importante.. yun baka pagaawayan niyo pa yan. Kaya pay attention to what she says, listen to her, understand her.

When you’re fighting with your significant other, it’s so much easier to just give up and walk away. But this is wrong, when you’re fighting with them, this is the time when youre suppose to hold on more, this is when you should be strong. Leaving shouldn’t be an option for you when you’re fighting. You should never let an argument cause your breakup. When you’re fighting with them, try to work things out. Do not give up right away. Talk things through, compromise. Trust me, it works.